Why?

I make mistakes!

I let go an opportunity.

I push people away.

I hate myself?

Trust + Insecurity + Question Mark = Selfish Us

Sometimes we have to let go certain things, no matter how important it is. Sometimes we have to open up, no matter how secretive things are. We find someone to share the matter but the only question to rise is how can we trust this people?

Is trust really important?

Insecurity is the biggest problem that we facing. We know we can trust the people we choose to share whatever happens to us but still by end of the day this question mark will appear. When we start sharing things with people we choose to trust, be it a family, a friend or even a stranger, the question mark will not important anymore.

Which one is more important? Is it a trust, insecurity or a question mark?

This is not about trust, if we can say so. If we can keep ourselves intact for so many years, why now we have to strip? Are we just found the right person to be open about or we just can’t carry the burden anymore? Who’s the victim here? The long suffering us or the suddenly drag them to the problem?

We ignore the trust in the case of unbearable burden. We don’t care about insecurity for the sake of good listener. We just have to accept the question mark once it’s done. We just are being selfish!

Is it true?